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[siriusly]

[after MANY starts and stops and deletes:]

1 why
2 because i said it on accidnet
3 we are going tomororw
4 i said it on ACCIDENT

[arclightning]

1. Because I want to know and because it matters
2. Only you
3. That's not an answer, do you want to go on it with this person?

Look, I get it. I went on a bunch of dates I didn't even know were dates and it was a mess. That's why it matters who you're going with and whether you actually want to do it. You don't want to do what I did.

[siriusly]

[siriusly]

[siriusly]

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[siriusly]

i asked if ryunosuke wanted to go to the archive and see if something i found was related to his home and he said yes
we agreed on a time and i said its a date on accident and hung up

[arclightning]

[ It's Ryuunosuke, is it!! That... is pretty cute and also Mako understands maybe more than he would like to about the panic. He remembers the flare of fear and panic when David had asked him out, when he'd been bold enough to say yes and then lay awake for two nights telling himself he was an idiot. ]

Hold on. Did you say the words "it's a date" like people say they're going to meet up?

[siriusly]

yes im pretty sure thats what i meant
but i hung up before checking
he didnt ask
i dont know what to do about this OK

[arclightning]

What you do about it is answer the questions. Doesn't even have to be to me. Answer to yourself.

Do you want it to be a date-date? If yes, text him and tell him you're looking forward to tomorrow and then tomorrow make sure to tell him it's an actual date. That part's important.

If no, text him and tell him you want to bring a friend. Nobody brings a friend to a date.

[siriusly]

[.,.,....]

ok

[terror.jpg]

so this is it
if he says no thanks then thats really it

[siriusly]

he said its OK

[siriusly]

That means its actually OK right???

[siriusly]

wait that means its actually a date
i never did one of those before
How is that supposed to work

[arclightning]

If you trust him to be honest, then yeah, it means it's a date.

[arclightning]

[ As for how to go on a date... ]

Dates are weird. You're just spending time with somebody, mostly. You show up, you try to make the person happy. If you know anything about what this guy likes, try to work that in somehow.

My first date with Wu, he missed Republic City and restaurants, so I got us pizza and set up a picnic. That kind of thing.

[siriusly]

OK
so i probably have that part covered at least
i think i found some books from one of his writer friends? maybe
that's what i suggested investigating

[arclightning]

[ That's... pretty cute, actually. Mako's glad this is text so Manabu can't see him smiling down at his Omni, softly amused. ]

You're gonna be great. If you get up the guts to do it, hold his hand or something like that. Something to set it apart from normal hanging out.

surprise 2

[arclightning]

And if you get nervous, just remember to be yourself. If he agreed to go on a date, it means he already likes you. Don't get weird.

[siriusly]

Easy for you to say!!
Im not that weird anyway

[arclightning]

You're not weird but you get weird when you're embarrassed.

[ Not that Mako is any better about that, at all, ever. Actually he might almost be worse but that is not the point here we are not ABOUT him at this particular time. ]

[siriusly]

Only as weird as anyone else you know

[arclightning]

That doesn't say much. I know a lot of weird people. I know a guy with twelve toes called Two-Toed Ping.

[siriusly]

then im even LESS weird than all that jeez

[arclightning]

The point is, just be yourself, don't freak out, you're gonna be fine. Dates aren't that complicated.

[siriusly]

OK fine

[THANKS BYE WHATEVER!!! aren't complicated

sure OK]